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Hey Rosie!

I found condoms in husband’s pocket, is he sleeping with somebody?
Hey Rosie!
I found condoms in husband’s pocket, is he sleeping with somebody?
Adib 
March 15, 2019
Hey Rosie, I found condoms in my husband’s jeans when I was about to wash them. One was missing from the packet. Rosie, we don’t use them! I feel so b...
My father-in-law  is coming to  live with us
Hey Rosie!
My father-in-law is coming to live with us
webmaster 
March 8, 2019
Hey Rosie, My wife’s father is coming to live with us in about two months. He lives in another country. Her mother just passed away a few months ago a...
Hey Rosie!
How do I deal with a messy neighbour?
webmaster 
March 1, 2019
Hi Rosie, My neighbour is a slob. Their house is always unkept, their lawn is out of control, they never clean up their garbage that falls out of thei...
Hey Rosie!
My man is married. Should I let go?
webmaster 
February 22, 2019
Hey Rosie, I’ve been with this married man for over four years now. He and his wife have been married for only six years. I used to be friends with th...
Hey Rosie!
You are a survivor!
webmaster 
February 15, 2019
Hi Rosie, I am a survivor of a sexual assault. it happened over 10 years ago. After much therapy, support from a small circle of friends and family, a...
My boyfriend has a really bad temper
Hey Rosie!
My boyfriend has a really bad temper
webmaster 
February 8, 2019
Hey Rosie, My boyfriend has such a bad temper. The smallest thing and he blows up and has yelled at me in front of friends and my cousins. He has pull...
Hey Rosie!
How do I tell my in-law to mind her business
webmaster 
February 1, 2019
Hey Rosie, How can I tell my wife’s aunt to mind her business? She is a lovely lady, she babysits our two little ones, brings over great meals at leas...
Hey Rosie!
I’m uncomfortable that my lady makes more money than me
webmaster 
January 25, 2019
Hey Rosie, I’M HAVING A difficult time adjusting to the fact that my lady is now making more money than me. We have been together for the last six yea...
Hey Rosie!
My teenage daughters are in two different worlds!!
webmaster 
January 18, 2019
Hi Rosie, I have two teenaged daughters, 15 and 16 years old. In fact they are less than one year apart. Problem is that they are so far apart in pers...
Hey Rosie!
This has got to stop!
webmaster 
January 11, 2019
Hi Rosie, My boyfriend’s BFF (best friend forever) is trying to flirt with me behind his back! I can’t believe he’s so bold. He sends me very suggesti...
Hey Rosie!
Another baby is on the way, making my home situation worse
webmaster 
January 4, 2019
Hey Rosie, I DON’T GET along with my father-in-law. I married his daughter about two years ago and I moved into his house to save money. I also had a ...
Hey Rosie!
Be open minded
webmaster 
December 28, 2018
HEY ROSIE, I GOT INTO a huge fight with my sissy and now she and I are at war for everything! We were always close, she was my best friend and we woul...
Hey Rosie!
One of my subordinates at work is trying to undermine me
webmaster 
December 21, 2018
Hello Rosie, I am having a problem with one of my subordinates at work.  I am about two years older than him, but he is a direct report to me.  I beli...
Hey Rosie!
My girlfriend says that she needs space
webmaster 
December 14, 2018
Hello Rosie, This is the thing, my girl just had a baby about a year ago and I told her that she should stay at home and look after the baby. I told h...
Hey Rosie!
How do we get our families to respect our boundaries
webmaster 
December 7, 2018
Hey Rosie, We are a young couple who just got married about four months ago.  We just closed on our new house and we are happy to be out of my parents...
Hey Rosie!
My neighbour makes a fuss for everything
webmaster 
November 30, 2018
Hi Rosie,   I have a neighbour who starts fights with everyone on the block. It is amazing what she can blow into a big deal. Recently she decided to ...
Hey Rosie!
My girl friend and I are both cheating
webmaster 
November 23, 2018
Hey Rosie, My girlfriend is cheating. I know this because I saw her with the man and they were kissing on the beach. She doesn’t know that I saw her. ...
Hey Rosie!
I had to move in with my sister and now she treats me like a kid
webmaster 
November 16, 2018
Hey Rosie I am having a problem with my sister. I had a problem at my last place and had to move into my sister’s house with my girlfriend and her son...
Hey Rosie!
Hard to say goodbye to my employers
webmaster 
November 9, 2018
Hi Rosie,   My question is really simple, I just received a great job offer and I am going to take it.  The problem is that I have been working with t...
Hey Rosie!
My husband has lost his sex drive after surgery
webmaster 
November 2, 2018
Hi Rosie, My husband had surgery recently and his sex drive has dropped off completely! At first I thought he was just healing, but it has been four m...
How can I get this woman off my back?
Hey Rosie!
How can I get this woman off my back?
webmaster 
October 26, 2018
Hey Rosie, There is this lady who loves to preach to me about living a pure life and a godly life, yet she is living in sin with a married man. How ca...
Hey Rosie!
I have a very lazy daughter
webmaster 
October 19, 2018
I HAVE A very lazy daughter. She’s in her early 20s and does absolutely nothing around the house. She has been doing her own thing for years and no ma...
Hey Rosie!
Just found out my loving husband is having an affair with a man
webmaster 
October 12, 2018
Hi Rosie,  I’ve been with my husband for over 33 years and we have a great relationship.  We support each other through thick and thin and we have wea...
Hey Rosie!
Our teenagers are winning the battle
webmaster 
October 5, 2018
Dear Rosie,   My husband and I are at odds raising our teenaged kids.  When I say no, he says yes.  We are pulling against each other and the kids kno...
Hey Rosie!
The man I’ve been dating; I never knew this fool is a married man!
webmaster 
September 28, 2018
Hi Rosie, I’ve been dating a guy for the last four months and I thought it was going well. I found that he would only see me on two specific days duri...
Hey Rosie!
My son is lazy; doesn’t want to do work that is ‘beneath’ him
webmaster 
September 21, 2018
Rosie,   My son graduated from college back in May.  We are very proud of him, but my issue is that he is not trying hard enough to look for work.  It...
Hey Rosie!
I’m not ladylike enough for my older relatives
webmaster 
September 14, 2018
Hi Rosie, I am told that I am brash and loud. This comes from mainly my older relatives, like my grandmother and her friends. They keep saying, “why c...
Hey Rosie!
My family went on a fun filled weekend without me
webmaster 
September 7, 2018
Hey Rosie, I have stopped talking to my sister and brother in law.  I saw that they had invited my other sister, parents and close cousin out for the ...
Hey Rosie!
In-laws turn up too frequently, have no respect for house rules, privacy
webmaster 
August 31, 2018
Hi Rosie, My problem has to do with my in-laws. They just drop by without giving us a heads up. Even my husband is annoyed and they’re his parents! Th...
Hey Rosie!
Family rocked with shocking discovery of teenaged daughter’s pregancy
webmaster 
August 24, 2018
Hi Rosie, I am so disappointed right now. I found out that my 16-year-old daughter is pregnant. I found out as she was going to prom. She kept throwin...
Hey Rosie!
I’m tired of being disrespected by my husband
webmaster 
August 17, 2018
Hey Rosie, I am having a rough time with my hubby. We are bickering about everything, be it money, the kids, his spending, disappearing for many hours...
Hey Rosie!
Help! My co-worker is nosy, gossips and takes credit for other people’s work
webmaster 
August 10, 2018
Hi Rosie, I have a nosy co-worker who really has gone too far. She’s nosy, spreads gossip about everyone, eats your lunch and shoves her work off on o...
Hey Rosie!
Is my wife cheating on me?
webmaster 
August 3, 2018
Hey Rosie, All of a sudden my wife is hanging out with a new work crew and is coming in late, drinking more, and hiding her phone from me, which she n...
Hey Rosie!
My daughter has poor choice in men!
webmaster 
July 27, 2018
Hey Rosie, I am so upset! My daughter keeps picking these losers and I can’t get it! She dated this guy who kept going to jail for petty theft. He wou...
Hey Rosie!
My neighbor’s backyard looks like a junkyard
webmaster 
July 20, 2018
Hey Rosie, I am having an issue with my neighbor. We have a great relationship, and he looks out for our property when we are away. Our extended famil...
Hey Rosie!
My friend keeps asking me for money!
webmaster 
July 13, 2018
Hey Rosie, How can I stop my friend from asking me all the time for money? I am so over our friendship already, so much so I avoid her now. I understa...
Hey Rosie!
My mom borrowed part of my mortgage money, now she wouldn’t pay back
webmaster 
July 6, 2018
Dear Rosie, My mother borrowed some money from me. I told her that I would need it back before the month was up, because it was a part of my mortgage ...
NEVER let anyone determine YOUR vision about  your future
Hey Rosie!
NEVER let anyone determine YOUR vision about your future
webmaster 
June 29, 2018
This week I thought I’d reach out to all of you wonderful graduates out there, It doesn’t matter if your are from high school, community college or un...
Hey Rosie!
My husband has been abusing me since I said ‘I Do!’
webmaster 
June 22, 2018
Hi Rosie, I am a young mother with three kids, all under four years old. I am also married and my husband has been abusing me from the time I said “I ...
Hey Rosie!
My friend is now unfairly using me and bossing me around
webmaster 
June 15, 2018
Hey Rosie, So my friend was just promoted as my supervisor at work. We have been friends since elementary school and now she’s my boss! Look, I’m happ...
Hey Rosie!
My woman is draining me; I feel like calling off the wedding
webmaster 
June 8, 2018
Hey Rosie, I am 29 years old, engaged to a very wonderful young lady and we have two young ones who are both under two years old. We both work full ti...
Hey Rosie!
I really need a special person in my life
webmaster 
June 1, 2018
Hey Rosie,   I am a 32-year-old professional and I have a great network of friends and belong to a great church family too.  But I am so lonely.  I wo...
Hey Rosie!
My boyfriend and I are from different worlds…how can we tell our parents?
Webmaster 
May 25, 2018
Hey Rosie, My boyfriend and I are from two different worlds.  He is Muslim and I am Catholic.  We have been going out for the last eight months... we ...
Hey Rosie!
How do I get my boyfriend who is 10 years older to take me more seriously?
Webmaster 
May 18, 2018
Hi Rosie, I have been dating a (mostly) great guy for over a year now. We get along like peas and carrots, but he sometimes treats me like a child. Or...
Hey Rosie!
Tired of my inconsiderate, selfish, cheap man; new guy a breath of fresh air
Webmaster 
May 10, 2018
Hey Rosie,  I’ve been having a rough time with my current boyfriend, and really, I am considering leaving him. He is selfish, cheap, inconsiderate, li...
How can I restart my life and get out of this slump?
Hey Rosie!
How can I restart my life and get out of this slump?
Searchlight 
April 27, 2018
Hey Rosie
I’m drowning in so much debt that I have to get a second job
Hey Rosie!, Searchlight
I’m drowning in so much debt that I have to get a second job
Searchlight 
April 20, 2018
Hey Rosie I’m drowning in so much debt that I have to get a second job I AM IN SO MUCH debt it’s crazy. So much so I don’t know how to tell my mom tha...
Hey Rosie!
My husband told me he doesn’t love me anymore; we don’t fight; he is just distant
searchlight 
March 29, 2018
Hey Rosie,  My husband told me he is not in love with me anymore.  He said that he has grown out of love and we no longer have anything in common....
Hey Rosie!
I can’t stand my husband anymore; I want him to just leave!
searchlight 
March 23, 2018
Dear Rosie, I can’t stand my husband! I really have had enough and I wish he would just go already and leave me and the children alone. He’s so la...
Hey Rosie!
I haven’t caught him yet, but I think my fiancé is cheating
searchlight 
March 16, 2018
Hey Rosie, I think my fiancé is cheating; I’ve not caught him yet, but I think that he is seeing another girl who lives in another town and his fam...
Hey Rosie!
I can’t forgive dad for cheating on mom
searchlight 
March 9, 2018
Hey Rosie, My dad cheated on my mom a long time ago and I am just finding out. I’m so devastated! Rosie, this was well over 10 years ago, when w...
Hey Rosie!
I’m so angry with him
searchlight 
March 2, 2018
Hey Rosie, I hope you are well. I found a message from my boyfriend of one year to another girl, who had sent him a pic of her privates and he respond...
Hey Rosie!
I can’t stand my mother
searchlight 
February 23, 2018
Hey Rosie, My mom is a very negative woman. When it comes to me, she never has a positive word. She has told my children that I’m her worse kid ...
Hey Rosie!
My man is nothing but a loafer; I am so done with him!
searchlight 
February 16, 2018
Hey Rosie, I’m so done. I’m really just so tired of my relationship with my man. We’ve been together for over 11 years and during those 11 years...
Hey Rosie!
My husband left me; says I’m too controlling, nag too much
searchlight 
February 9, 2018
Hey Rosie, My husband just left me. Rosie, it was such a shock... he said he was tired of me! He said that I complained too much, nagged him and was...
Hey Rosie!
Mother-in-law is very nasty to me, should I just cut her off?
searchlight 
February 2, 2018
Hey Rosie, My mother-in-law is so nasty to me, I can’t take it! She’s always throwing shade, Rosie. I mean, why is this still happening? Iâ€...
Hey Rosie!
My son is a bully
searchlight 
January 26, 2018
Hey Rosie, I was told by my son’s school that he is a bully. Rosie, I was upset, because I truly believed that they were lying. My son is nine years...
Hey Rosie!
Dealing with an incompetent co-worker
searchlight 
January 19, 2018
Hey Rosie, I am having a problem with a co-worker.  He is always taking credit for team projects; he kisses up to our boss and even tries to throw u...
Hey Rosie!
My brother always wants money, but never pays me back
searchlight 
January 12, 2018
Hey Rosie,  I just have a small gripe. Whenever my brother calls me with an urgent request for money, I would reach out to help him, even if I am ...
Hey Rosie!
My sister’s significant other is a woman!!
searchlight 
January 5, 2018
Hey Rosie, So, my sister and I are two years apart; we’ve always been close. Same schools, friends, shared our clothes, parties on and on. My sister...
Hey Rosie!
My’s sister’s 7-year-old daughter is so rude!
searchlight 
December 29, 2017
Dear Rosie, My sister has a beautiful seven-year-old daughter; she’s bright, pretty and also funny. The major hiccup is that she’s so rude, Rosie!...
Hey Rosie!
My bestie’s man is cheating with my cousin
searchlight 
December 22, 2017
Hey Rosie, This is a little embarrassing, but I think that my bestie’s man is cheating with my cousin. How I found out is that they sent pictures in...
Hey Rosie!
My girlfriend is a real killjoy
searchlight 
December 15, 2017
Hey Rosie, I have this girlfriend who is so very negative! Sometimes I call her my associate, because I find her so difficult to be around that I have...
Hey Rosie!
High expectations: what should I do?
searchlight 
December 8, 2017
Hey Rosie  Thank you yet again for the sound advice that you have always provided to me. Anyway, yet again I have found myself in a confusing situatio...
Hey Rosie!
My co-worker and I are taken, but I’m still attracted to her. Help!
searchlight 
December 1, 2017
Hey Rosie, I’m attracted to my co-worker. We are both in relationships, but we get along like a house on fire. We call each other work husband and w...
Hey Rosie!
I’m worried about how my ex’s upcoming marriage will affect our son
searchlight 
November 24, 2017
Hey Rosie, I have a very strained relationship with my ex who is also the father of my teenage son. We were once very much in love and planning a futu...
Hey Rosie!
My white mother-in-law openly says hateful things about me
searchlight 
November 17, 2017
Hey Rosie,  I do not get along with my mother-in-law. She is white and I am black.  She is the only one who openly says hateful things about my backgr...
Hey Rosie!
My 16-year-old has a girl pregnant – Mom
searchlight 
November 10, 2017
Hey Rosie, I just found out that my 16-year-old son may have gotten a girl pregnant! Rosie, I’m freaking out! The girl’s mother wants to meet my h...
Hey Rosie!
I’m being misjudged: Am I being selfish?
searchlight 
November 3, 2017
Hi Rosie, I’ve been having a rough time with a few people in my life: some are co-workers, in-laws and even siblings. Everyone says that I am diffic...
Hey Rosie!
I always forgive my cheating bf. I need advice
searchlight 
October 26, 2017
Hey Rosie, It have this guy, we together for about eight years and I have a son and also had a miscarriage for this guy. He cheats on me over and over...
Hey Rosie!
Hurt and confused
searchlight 
October 20, 2017
Hey Rosie, I am a 22-year-old mother of one, who is working towards a bright future. I am in a relationship with a guy who lied about having a girlfri...
Hey Rosie!
My ex bf wants to ‘chill and catch up.’ What should I do?
searchlight 
October 13, 2017
Hey Rosie,  A long time ago I wrote to you when I was in high school and told you that I was in a love triangle.  You suggested that I focus on school...
Hey Rosie!
Should I confront my BFF?
searchlight 
October 6, 2017
Hi Rosie,   I just have a quick question about my BFF. She is talking behind my back and it’s coming back to me from different sources. What should ...
Hey Rosie!
I want to share my life with a meaningful partner
searchlight 
September 29, 2017
Hey Rosie,  I am a professional single mother of a an 11-old girl.  Her father and I share custody and he is very good to her.  He has moved on, marri...
Hey Rosie!
I love women, regardless of colour, size or religion; but I am married
searchlight 
September 22, 2017
Hey Rosie, What can I say – I love women! I don’t care colour, size or religion. I find women exciting and I can’t stop chasing them. They love ...
Hey Rosie!
I’m stuck between my two boyfriends!
searchlight 
September 15, 2017
Hey Rosie, I’m a 22-year-old who’s stuck between two guys, both of whom I love. One is my boyfriend and the other is my ‘other boyfriend’, if ...
Hey Rosie!
My mother kicked me out, now I want to go home
searchlight 
September 8, 2017
Hey Rosie, My mother put me out because she said I was disrespectful and lazy. I have to admit that she is right. I don’t want to admit it to her, b...
Hey Rosie!
What can I do about a creepy guy in my building who scares me?
searchlight 
September 1, 2017
Hey Rosie. In my building there is this creepy guy who keeps looking at me, winking and calling out to me. I get really scared when I come in from cla...
Hey Rosie!
I want to move on, but I might still be in love with my ex
searchlight 
August 25, 2017
Hey Rosie, My last relationship ended over three years ago and I’ve been single since then. My ex and I were together for over five years and he che...
Hey Rosie!
I’m too scared to leave my boyfriend. Help!
searchlight 
August 18, 2017
Hey Rosie, My problem is that I am in a seven-year relationship with a man who has been beating me for the last five years.  Rosie, I don’t know wha...
Hey Rosie!
I’ve got relationship conflicts with my girlfriend
searchlight 
August 11, 2017
Hey Rosie, I am imran and I am in love with a woman of above my age. She is 36 and I am 33. We are both staying in Johannesburg, but we come from diff...
Hey Rosie!
I am struggling financially, never recognized for my ideas, hard work
searchlight 
July 28, 2017
Hey Rosie, I wish I were in a better place professionally. I am constantly struggling financially and I am never recognized at work for all of my idea...
Hey Rosie!
I don’t want to share my man
searchlight 
July 21, 2017
Hey Rosie, I am a 21-year-old mother of a three-year-old and pregnant at the moment for a 32-year-old guy who has a girlfriend. I met this guy in Febr...
Hey Rosie!
My dad’s new wife has him walking on eggshells
searchlight 
July 14, 2017
Hey Rosie, So, I had a very nasty exchange with my father’s new wife. My dad remarried after my mother died about three years ago. We were a tight f...
Hey Rosie!
Your grown kids are emotional, financial vampires!
searchlight 
July 7, 2017
Hey Rosie. I keep supporting my grown kids and I am so sick and tired of it!  I am especially so fed up with my married daughter and her hubby, who ar...
Hey Rosie!
I don’t want to go to the prom with a guy
searchlight 
June 30, 2017
Hey Rosie, Quick and simple question. I don’t want to go to prom with a guy. I would rather go with a group of girls, then go to the after party wit...
Hey Rosie!
My sister betrayed me to the bone
searchlight 
June 23, 2017
Hey Rosie, I just found out that my sister is seeing my ex and she started seeing him when we were dating.  I can’t believe that my sister did that ...
Hey Rosie!
Should I give in and let him go to see what it is really like?
searchlight 
June 16, 2017
Hey Rosie, My ex and I share custody of our son.  I am single and my ex has gone on to remarry and he now has two younger children with his wife.  For...
Hey Rosie!
My third form sister has fallen in love with our neighbour and I’m worried
searchlight 
June 9, 2017
Hey Rosie, My sister has fallen in love with this boy, our neighbour. She is a third form student and I am worried. I am in third form too. I don’t ...
Hey Rosie!
My daughter doesn’t know she’s adopted
searchlight 
June 2, 2017
Hey Rosie, I really hope you can help me. I am in a sticky situation. My beautiful daughter is 12 and it’s always been just she and I. The thing is,...
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Soca Monarch preliminaries at Victoria Park on Friday
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Soca Monarch preliminaries at Victoria Park on Friday
Christina 
June 13, 2025
The Carnival Development Corporation (CDC) invites managers, producers, artistes and members of the public to the 2025 Soca Monarch Preliminaries. The...
Chevonne Stewart is ULP’s new candidate for Southern Grenadines
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Chevonne Stewart is ULP’s new candidate for Southern Grenadines
Webmaster 
June 13, 2025
Chevonne Stewart was formally introduced last Sunday, June 8, 2025, as the person the Unity Labour Party (ULP) intends to be its candidate for the Sou...
Park to be upgraded for comfort, ease  and aesthetics
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Park to be upgraded for comfort, ease and aesthetics
Webmaster 
June 13, 2025
The Carnival Development Corporation (CDC) is taking significant steps to ensure that Victoria Park, the main carnival venue, is accessible to everyon...
Calypso tent action heats up in SVG
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Calypso tent action heats up in SVG
Webmaster 
June 13, 2025
Local calypsonians are gearing up to bring their best game as the preliminary judging round has officially begun. This year is a big year for the frat...
SVG leads Caribbean Tourism growth from US Market
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SVG leads Caribbean Tourism growth from US Market
Webmaster 
June 13, 2025
St Vincent and the Grenadines (SVG) has emerged as the top-performing Caribbean destination for growth in tourism arrivals from the United States (US)...

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