My ex bf wants to ‘chill and catch up.’ What should I do?
Hey Rosie,
A long time ago I wrote to you when I was in high school and told you that I was in a love triangle. You suggested that I focus on school and not all the drama of this triangle and I took your advice. I dumped my boyfriend and my friend whom he was seeing as well. Fast forward six years; Iâve graduated from college and I am going to do my post-graduate degree. I truly donât regret it. This is the deal, though; my ex-boyfriend contacted me via Facebook and wants to âchat and catch upâ. Rosie, truthfully, I will always be attracted to this dude, but I havenât seen him in over four years. He has a daughter and I have a boyfriend for the last two years and we have no issues. So, why am I curious? What should I do?
One more time
Dear One more time,
Iâm begging you, please, NO MORE TIMES! You know that you are entering into the danger zone and why play with fire, my girl?
Yes, he was your old flame, but remember he burnt you before with his wandering eyes and I am not saying that people canât change, but why go down this road again? You seem to have a nice partner. Congrats! Youâve done well in school and you are continuing to strive for more. Your future looks bright; please leave the past where it belongs.
Believe me, I understand the laws of attraction and in some cases, you canât stop being pulled towards whom you are attracted to. But I am asking you to just let him know that you arenât interested and wish him well. Believe me, itâs the best thing. Continued success as you continue to soar.
Rosie
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