I’m pregnant and don’t know who is the baby’s father

Hey Rosie,

I’m pregnant and I am ashamed to say that I’m not sure which of the two guys that I was sleeping with is the father. Rosie, I told them both that they are and I don’t know how to admit the deal. What should I do?

Please help me.

Dear help me,

Well, at least you are honest with yourself about the level of your deception with these men. This kind of game, where you tell both men that they are the father, only ends very badly for everyone involved – especially the innocent child.

Truthfully, I don’t know when you should tell them, but I do know that they should be told. You have to at least get this done before you leave the hospital with the baby.

Honesty is the best policy. I’m not judging your choices, but you have to look inwardly to figure out why you are in this position. You have to do right by this baby and figure out who the daddy is, then mend fences to co-parent as best as you can.

Good luck with your new arrival.

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