I am sleeping with my husband’s brother and don’t want to stop!

Hey Rosie,

I AM SLEEPING with my husband’s brother. It’s been going on for over two years now and I love it !

Rosie, I truly don’t want to stop doing this because I have better sex with him than with his brother. The problem is he wants to stop because he’s getting married.{{more}} I asked him why does it have to stop, it can still be our secret. He said he loves her! What does love have to do with it? How do I convince him to stay? I don’t want to leave my husband because I don’t have to work and he’s basically a good father and husband, just boring in bed. Help me, please?

Keeping my lover

Dear keeping my lover,

Well, well, well! You have just floored me! You are in a special category of your very own. One that really has no shame!

Help you? Are you serious ? No, I will not! You are a very bold-faced person; you’ve been having your cake and eating it too. You appear to have a loving and attentive husband, who may have some issues in your bedroom. But instead of dealing with it head on and seek-ing help, you crept off and indulged in an extra marital affair with his brother no less! Look, just stop it! I am just so upset with how nonchalant you are.

I will not mention that you should leave your brother-in-law alone to have his own life with his wife-to-be. I would not tell you that your actions are wrong. I would not tell you that if you continue doing this, you will lose everything. But I will tell you that you need to grow a conscience, seek mental help and deal with the issues that cause you to disrespect your marriage like this. Simply put – seek help!

Rosie

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