Iâm with a new guy now, but I always compare him to my ex. The way he speaks to me, the way he looks out for me, even our sex life, I just canât stop.
Never mind that my ex cheated on me numerous times and got another girl pregnant when we were together, I still realize that I have a thing for my ex.{{more}}
I have never told my present boyfriend my thoughts, but I can see that this relationship isnât going to last. Should I go back to my ex, Rosie, even though I know he is never loyal? At least this one is loyal, even though heâs boring.
Help!
Dear Help!
Wow, you do know you have some major unresolved issues, right? There are so many layers to this, I donât even know where to begin.
Before you consider going back to your ex (a bad idea), you should consider trying to work on you and what makes you attracted to people who are obviously not good for you. This is your first step.
Secondly, do not jump from one relationship to another. This is NOT smart. Sometimes we need to figure out what went wrong and what you would like going forward. I strongly suspect this is what happened with your new relationship.
Thirdly you should just do the right thing and let your new boyfriend go. I think itâs the right thing to do; do not string him along like this; itâs not right. You must work out your issues in terms of you deserving better treatment and also treating others with respect.
Good luck on your journey.
Rosie
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