HI ROSIE, I’M 12 AND my boyfriend is 14. We have been going out for about 9 months. Everything was great until last month when he wants us to have sex. Rosie I said no and he said I should prove to him how committed I am to the relationship. If not he’ll know my answer and will have to move on to a more mature partner. What should I do Rosie? I don’t want to loose him! Help me please.
Dear Forcing me,
Girl, girl, girl! You are a smart little young lady. You KNOW your worth and I’m going to encourage you to stick to you grounds … It’s NO!
He wants a more mature partner? Please!! You are 12 and a child and he’s also a child of 14! What kind of mature he’s looking for? A working woman? Again…
Please! All that chat is to make you feel bad and don’t fall for it – EVER!
Could you imagine if you gave in, got pregnant or even worse a disease? Oh no miss, we aren’t having any of that. The thing is take a look at him and see if this is somebody who you even consider a friend. Maybe parting ways may not be the worse thing. Remember if other people are doing it doesn’t make it right. So stand strong sister girl. You will go far!