Hey Rosie,
Iâve been married for over 20 years and I canât trust my husband around any of my friends. He is a horrible flirt and I canât stand it. At first, years ago, I thought it was harmless, but now heâs flirting with my friendsâ daughters, who could be his daughters as well. One day, I even heard he took one of them to lunch. When I confronted him, he said he was just counselling her!{{more}} He must think I am crazy ! I want to leave! I feel disrespected and I deserve better. What do you think?
Done
Dear Done,
Well, thatâs a new one! Counselling! Well, I never! My girl, what DO YOU think? I think after witnessing this for so many years, you are at the end of your rope!
So, as usual, a couple of questions: Do you still love him? Do you want to work it out because you think heâs a good guy? Are you just tired and would like a fresh start? Have you ever caught him cheating and do you have proof?
Listen, at the end of the day only you can answer these. But I do believe you deserve the respect and also trust of your partner 100 per cent. In this case, you are always giving him and your friends the side eye, because you donât trust anyone !
Sit down and ask yourself if this marriage is worth saving, or has it run its course. Good luck, my friend. I would also seek counselling, to get your head straight as well.
Rosie
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