Hey Rosie!
June 14, 2013

I really love her, but I feel I’m being cheated on

Hey Rosie,

You can call me Slim. I met a girl I really love, Rosie. When we first met, everything was perfect. Her cousins hate me and prefer her ex. They are the reason why we broke up before and now that we are back together, I feel my girl doesn’t love me any more. She doesn’t have time for me, but she prefers to go partying and lies to me. She always has an excuse. She uploads things with her ex and says she and her ex are good friends. I feel I’m being cheated on.{{more}} I really love her. No matter what, my feelings are always there for her, but it seems she doesn’t love me the same.


Hello Slim,

Well, you know how I feel about the inner voice when it speaks to you? You may be right and she may be cheating, or she is losing interest in the relationship. So, what are you going to do?

My thing is why stick around if the signs are telling you it’s time to call it a day? Forget the family, the ex and other outside influences; don’t you deserve someone to love you equally?

You should get it together; ask her if she really wants this relationship or does she want to move on? Listen carefully to how she answers you. Sometimes the unspoken word or how they answer you is the most powerful sign.

Then make your decision. If you are going, go. No back and forth, no fighting or stalking! Set her free. If she really wants to be with you, her words and actions will let you know. Then, you both have to work hard to work on your trust issues.

I wish you the best.


Send questions to Rosie at: heyrosie24@yahoo.com or

P.O Box 152, Kingstown, St Vincent & the Grenadines.