An affirmation of family
by Pastor Dermoth Baptiste
Coordinator, Seventh-day Adventist Church
Conscious of the importance of the family to the structure, stability and development of society and for the perpetuation of strong, positive values for the present and future generation,{{more}} the Seventh-day Adventist Church wishes to affirm the Family and support the efforts of the Ministry of National Mobilization in creating awareness, developing programs and providing education aimed at strengthening family life, reducing abuse and violence and fostering love and acceptance within the home.
The family tie is still the closest, the most tender and sacred of any human relationship on earth. God instituted the family as the primary provider of the warm and caring relationships for which the human heart yearns.
In the family circle, deep and abiding desires for belonging, love, and intimacy are met in significant ways. God blesses the family and intends that its members will help each other in reaching complete maturity and wholeness. In the Christian family, the personal worth and dignity of each member is affirmed and safeguarded in an environment of respect, equality, openness, and love. In this intimate circle the individualâs earliest and most lasting attitudes toward relationships are developed and values are conveyed from one generation to another.
God intends that a revelation of Himself and His ways be gained from the family relationship. Marriage, with mutual love, honour, intimacy, and lifelong commitment as its fabric, mirrors the love, sanctity, closeness and permanence of the bond between Christ and His church. The training, nurturing and discipline of children by their parents and the loving response of offspring to the affection shown them reflects the experience of believers as children of God. By Godâs grace the family may be a powerful agency in leading its members to Christ.
Sin has perverted Godâs ideals for marriage and family. Furthermore the increasing complexity of society and the enormous stresses which fall upon relationships, lead to crises within many families today. The results are evidenced in lives that are shattered, relationships that are broken, individuals that are dysfunctional and characterized by mistrust, conflict, hostility and estrangement. Many family members, including parents and grandparents, but especially wives and children, suffer from family violence. Abuse, both emotional and physical, has reached epidemic proportions. The rising number of divorces signals a high degree of marital discord and unhappiness.
Families need to experience renewal and reformation in their relationships. This will help change the destructive attitudes and practices prevalent in many homes today. Through the power of the gospel, family members are enabled to acknowledge their individual sinfulness, to accept each otherâs brokenness, and to receive Christâs redemptive healing in their lives and relationships. Although some family relationships may fall short of the ideal, and restoration from damaging experiences may not be fully accomplished, where the love of Christ reigns, His Spirit will promote unity and harmony making such homes channels of life-giving joy and power in the church and community. May each family find healing, security and refuge in the everlasting arms of our compassionate Savior.
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